How to sell without ever selling.
When I'm working with my clients, about 95% of my attention is on vibrational resonance, something I'm deeply attuned to. It really is all about vibration, y'all.
Four ways to increase your emotional intelligence.
It's no secret that technology is becoming a more and more integral part of our daily lives at an astonishing rate. And with this rapidly growing relationship with technology, many of us have lost our ability to relate with one another.
Paying homage to my 19 year old self.
I've been in a very intense process the past two and a half months, writing my talk for this TED Talk coming up in a couple weeks in Chicago. And the intensity had way less to do with TED than it did with emotional barriers I bypassed when I was 19.
Indulging in the compulsion to overreact and how to heal.
If we are low on energy stores, reaction is inevitable. And sometimes, it’s needed as a necessary part of the healing process.
Let adversity reveal your gifts.
Every single one of us has obstacles and has experienced adversity, and every single one of us has to show up to do the work if we want to improve or make change in our lives.
Are you blaming with fancy packaging?
Giving feedback is way more than truth-telling. Are you truly getting vulnerable and building relationship with your feedback, or are you unknowingly causing disconnection?
Want better boundaries? Start doing things you hate.
Boundaries are birthed from aversion practices. From trying new things and floundering. From experimenting consciously with your edges. From allowing yourself to feel things you once decided were wrong to feel.
To die. To sleep. To sleep: perchance to dream.
Revisiting Hamlet’s famous scene to discover the battle of mind versus heart, and what is waiting to be discover just beyond ego death.
Expressing your emotions is not the same thing as emotional processing.
Most people are not equipped to help you process your emotions, but what they are equipped to do is to receive your heart.
What to do when someone else's boundaries feel like walls.
Boundaries are decidedly NOT walls. But what do you do when they feel like they are from someone else?
A spiritual growth practice for someone you despise.
This is the spiritual practice of all spiritual practices. When you can honor the vile in another, then, and only then, are you truly liberated.
What are my basic human rights?
If you're practicing these rights in your own life, it's expected that you honor the fact that others practice them in their lives as well.
How to know if you have bad boundaries.
People with bad boundaries attract people with bad boundaries. They are a perfect vibrational match for one another. And the good news is that it only takes one person to break the cycle.
Are you emotionally evacuating your body?
What is emotional evacuation, why and under what circumstances do we do it, and how do we break this pattern so that we can finally begin living the expanded, radiant lives we are here to live?
What is chemistry and why does it matter?
We have all experienced chemistry in relationship - that thing that pulls you to one another and undeniably creates attraction in relationship, friendship, business partnership, and more. But what is it, really? How does it function, and what lives beyond it?
How to know if you've been violated.
What’s the difference between the necessary violations of our childhood and the unnecessary but often perpetuated self-violation of our adulthood, and what’s needed to disrupt this pattern from occurring?
Why do we have bodies?
More often than not, our bodies feel like a big obstacle. They don’t always cooperate, and generally, it’s much easier to rationalize and not listen to what our bodies are telling us at all. So, why do our bodies actually matter?
You don't need to know how. You just need a vision.
How do you embody your own childlike curiosity, wonder, and awe to follow your vision without evaluating your resources?
Who is your guru?
Guru is a charged word. But what does it mean to be a guru, and why does it matter?
What does the map of your life look like?
Have you set yourself up with directions and identifiable landmarks to get you to where you’re going? If you’re feeling disoriented about your path in life, perhaps you’re giving yourself confusing directions.