Some of the greatest work you could ever do is learning how to CLEANLY speak your truth.

For a long time I thought there must be an elusive thing I was missing. Like, some relationship gene that didn't get passed down to me. I looked at it like this failure in my life, and all the while, I was not actually taking active measures to date.

Good sex has nothing to do with skill. It has to do with clarity, willingness, communication, presence, and attention.