FOR YOUR CONTEMPLATION
Your partner is never a project.
When we see our partners or potential suitors as projects, we create the very thing we’re trying to prevent, and repel the thing we want the most in partnership.
It is possible to experience love without angst.
I had, in my early childhood development, conflated angst and fear with love. And so I was hyper vigilant in my connections with people whom I got close with, and it would literally drive me crazy.
Learning what it means to be a woman.
The days of righteous and justified feminism are over. We get nowhere so long as we blame men for our misfortunes, or worse, give up on them entirely.
Good lovers are not found; they are co-created.
Good sex has nothing to do with skill. It has to do with clarity, willingness, communication, presence, and attention.